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Friendship with an ex is just a backup plan in disguise. Pick a side.

Friendship with an ex is just a backup plan in disguise. Pick a side.

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Everyone claims they're being 'mature,' but we all know that 2 a.m. text isn't about friendship. Is it real closure or just a safety net for when your new vibe gets boring? Let's stop lying to ourselves and settle this. Are you actually over them or just keeping the engine warm?

Discussion Agenda (4 items)

Total: 30 min

Introductions and The Block Button

5 min

Introduce yourself and share: what is the one thing an ex could do that would make you block them instantly without a word?

Maturity or Masochism

10 min

Let’s get into it—is staying friends a sign of emotional growth, or are we just too scared to face a world where they aren't a text away?

The New Partner's Problem

10 min

Be honest: would you actually be okay with your partner having their 'bestie' ex over for lunch, or is that an immediate red flag?

The Art of the Clean Break

5 min

Share the moment you realized you finally had to delete the number for good, and how your life changed after the door was actually shut.

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