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Loving who they could be instead of who they are. Stand on it.

Loving who they could be instead of who they are. Stand on it.

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Fri, Feb 27 (in 3 days)
8:30 PM
30 mins

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We have all stayed too long because of what could be while ignoring what actually is. Is it vision or are you just afraid to start over with someone new? Let's be real about whether building a person is worth the wait. Are you dating a human or a project?

Discussion Agenda (4 items)

Total: 30 min

Welcome and the red flags

5 min

Introduce yourself and name one 'potential' trait you used to fall for in the past but now run from.

Visionary or delusional

10 min

Let's argue. Is it actually possible to love someone for exactly who they are right now without wanting to improve them?

The receipt check

10 min

Share a story of when you stayed for potential. Did they actually level up or did you just lose your time?

The today standard

5 min

If your partner never changed a single thing from this moment, would you stay? Tell us why or why not.

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